How many red flags are too many?

I walk into the restaurant to meet my blind date. It's Valentine's Day and it's the last day I would ever want a first date to be on. But it's too late. I sit down, and he looks better in person than in the pictures, but that's the only highlight. It's all downhill from here. First, he orders food for [...]

Cheap men or cheap wine?

There was a guy I dated for a few weeks who loved to eat at expensive restaurants but never paid for anything. He actually paid for the first date, but explained that he was currently looking for a job so he was strapped for cash. I said that's fine, because I was a student during that time [...]